Если вы колеблетесь, прежде чем сказать «нет», то, возможно, вы неврастеник. Если вы по-настоящему боитесь сказать «нет», то вы, скорее всего, имеете дело с ядовитым человеком. Если никто никогда не говорит «нет» вам, то ядовитым человеком являетесь именно вы.

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Цитаты психиатра Марка Гоулстона

Марк Гоулстон — психиатр, специализирующийся на успешных переговорах. Профессиональное знание психологии людей, склонных к агрессии, суициду и другим деструктивным эмоциональным проявлениям позволило ему создать авторские методики подготовки переговорщиков — как для бизнеса, так и для работы в полиции и спецслужбах. Входил в списки лучших психиатров США 2004, 2005 и 2009 годов.

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