Love him and let him love you. Do you think anything else under heaven really matters?

Nothing is more desirable than to be released from an affliction, but nothing is more frightening than to be divested of a crutch.

It is very nearly impossible... to become an educated person in a country so distrustful of the independent mind.

To be a Negro in this country and to be relatively conscious is to be in a rage almost all the time.

Any writer, I suppose, feels that the world into which he was born is nothing less than a conspiracy against the cultivation of his talent.

The only thing that white people have that black people need, or should want, is power-and no one holds power forever.

When one begins to live by habit and by quotation, one has begun to stop living.

The most dangerous creation of any society is the man who has nothing to lose.

Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality.

Life is tragic simply because the earth turns and the sun inexorably rises and sets, and one day, for each of us, the sun will go down for the last, last time.

It is certain, in any case, that ignorance, allied with power, is the most ferocious enemy justice can have.

People are trapped in history and history is trapped in them.

The face of a lover is an unknown, precisely because it is invested with so much of oneself. It is a mystery, containing, like all mysteries, the possibility of torment.

The future is like heaven, everyone exalts it, but no one wants to go there now.

There is never time in the future in which we will work out our salvation. The challenge is in the moment; the time is always now.

The question of sexual dominance can exist only in the nightmare of that soul which has armed itself, totally, against the possibility of the changing motion of conquest and surrender, which is love.

Anyone who has ever struggled with poverty knows how extremely expensive it is to be poor.

No one can possibly know what is about to happen: it is happening, each time, for the first time, for the only time.

To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in the force of life, of life itself, and to be present in all that one does, from the effort of loving to the making of bread.

Nobody is more dangerous than he who imagines himself pure in heart; for his purity, by definition, is unassailable.

The noblest spirit is most strongly attracted by the love of glory.

Be careful what you set your heart upon - for it will surely be yours.

Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.

I love America more than any other country in this world, and, exactly for this reason, I insist on the right to criticize her perpetually.

Those who say it can't be done are usually interrupted by others doing it.

People who treat other people as less than human must not be surprised when the bread they have cast on the waters comes floating back to them, poisoned.

The price one pays for pursuing any profession, or calling, is an intimate knowledge of its ugly side.

I want to be an honest man and a good writer.

No people come into possession of a culture without having paid a heavy price for it.

Every legend, moreover, contains its residuum of truth, and the root function of language is to control the universe by describing it.

Education is indoctrination if you're white - subjugation if you're black.

The world is before you and you need not take it or leave it as it was when you came in.

Voyagers discover that the world can never be larger than the person that is in the world; but it is impossible to foresee this, it is impossible to be warned.

Love him and let him love you. Do you think anything else under heaven really matters?

I am what time, circumstance, history, have made of me, certainly, but I am also, much more than that. So are we all.

People can cry much easier than they can change.

There are few things more dreadful than dealing with a man who knows he is going under, in his own eyes, and in the eyes of others. Nothing can help that man. What is left of that man flees from what is left of human attention.

When a man asks himself what is meant by action he proves that he isn't a man of action. Action is a lack of balance. In order to act you must be somewhat insane. A reasonably sensible man is satisfied with thinking.

Most of us are about as eager to be changed as we were to be born, and go through our changes in a similar state of shock.

Money, it turned out, was exactly like sex, you thought of nothing else if you didn't have it and thought of other things if you did.

Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.

Fires can't be made with dead embers, nor can enthusiasm be stirred by spiritless men. Enthusiasm in our daily work lightens effort and turns even labor into pleasant tasks.

I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain.

It was books that taught me that the things that tormented me most were the very things that connected me with all the people who were alive, or who had ever been alive.

The paradox of education is precisely this - that as one begins to become conscious one begins to examine the society in which he is being educated.

You know, it's not the world that was my oppressor, because what the world does to you, if the world does it to you long enough and effectively enough, you begin to do to yourself.

A child cannot be taught by anyone who despises him, and a child cannot afford to be fooled.

The questions which one asks oneself begin, at least, to illuminate the world, and become one's key to the experience of others.

The writer's greed is appalling. He wants, or seems to want, everything and practically everybody, in another sense, and at the same time, he needs no one at all.