Caring for but never trying to own may be a further way to define friendship.

Every single major push in education has made it worse and right now it's really bad because everything we've done is de-humanizing education. It's destroying the possibility of the teacher and the student having a warm, friendly, intellectual relationship.

We don't focus as much in schools on educational knowledge which requires thinking and application, as we do on acquiring facts.

If we had in this room a hundred teachers, good teachers from good schools, and asked them to define the word education, there would be very little general agreement.

We may be up against a stone wall, but we don't have to bloody our heads against it unless we choose to.

Too many of us fail to fulfill our needs because we say no rather than yes, or perhaps later in life, yes when we should say no.

The faster you go, the more students you leave behind. It doesn't matter how much or how fast you teach. The true measure is how much students have learned.

Told that the passing grade is a B or competence and that we will help you to get there, students do competent work. The lowest passing grade in the real world is competence. Why do schools accept so much less?

Effective teaching may be the hardest job there is.

Running a school where the students all succeed, even if some students have to help others to make the grade, is good preparation for democracy.

Good or bad, everything we do is our best choice at that moment.

You can acquire a lot of knowledge without ever going to school.

We can pay teachers a hundred thousand dollars a year, and we'll do nothing to improve our schools as long as we keep the A, B, C, D, F grading system.

If you want to change attitudes, start with a change in behavior.

If you improve education by teaching for competence, eliminating schooling, and connecting with students, the test scores will improve.

To counter the avoidance of intellectual challenge and responsibility, we must reduce the domination of certainty in education.

Sex is on the minds of most people, especially those who shouldn't be having it.

Prior to being allowed to enter the profession, prospective teachers should be asked to talk with a group of friendly students for at least half an hour and be able to engage them in an interesting conversation about any subject the prospective teacher wants to talk about.

There are only two places in the world where time takes precedence over the job to be done. School and prison.

No human being will work hard at anything unless they believe that they are working for competence.

We are driven by five genetic needs: survival, love and belonging, power, freedom, and fun.

Without pay, no human being will work up to their ability if he or she is not cared for and respected.

This is at the heart of all good education, where the teacher asks students to think and engages them in encouraging dialogues, constantly checking for understanding and growth.

When we label anyone 'bad', we will have more trouble dealing with him than if we could have settled for a lesser label.

We can teach a lot of things, but if the teacher can't relate by talking to a group of friendly students, he'll never be a competent teacher.

I think it is totally wrong and terribly harmful if education is defined as acquiring knowledge.

Since there will be no one left to talk peace after the next war, it makes good sense to break with tradition and hold the peace conference first.

In a Glasser Quality School there is no such thing as a closed book test. Students are told to get out their notes and open their books. There is no such thing as being forbidden to ask the teacher or another student for help.

There is plenty of competition in a Glasser Quality School in that there is winning but no losing.

As long as acquiring knowledge is the educational goal of schools, educational opportunities will be limited, as they are now, to affluent families.

I think education is both using and improving knowledge and that changes the whole picture.

If everyone could learn that what is right for me does not make it right for anyone else, the world would be a much happier place.

It is almost impossible for anyone, even the most ineffective among us, to continue to choose misery after becoming aware that it is a choice.

Don't marry someone you would not be friends with if there was no sex between you.

What students lack in school is an intellectual relationship or conversation with the teacher.

We almost always have choices, and the better the choice, the more we will be in control of our lives.

Everybody needs one essential friend.

What happened in the past that was painful has a great deal to do with what we are today, but revisiting this painful past can contribute little or nothing to what we need to do now.

Education is the process in which we discover that learning adds quality to our lives. Learning must be experienced.

Caring for but never trying to own may be a further way to define friendship.

Using no control and using humor will build a relationship and make a dent to where the client puts the counselor in their quality world and then begins to relate and seek out the counselor. Effective therapy begins with the acceptance of the therapist into the client's quality world.

Good or bad everything we do is our best choice at that moment.

We are driven by five genetic needs survival love and belonging power freedom and fun.

The answer lies in preventing failures not in looking for better ways to fix the children who are failing.

There are only two places in the world where time takes precedence over the job to be done school and prison.

When we label anyone 'bad', we will have more trouble dealing with him than if we could have settled fo a lesser label.

When you study great teachers, you will learn much more from their caring and hard work than from their style.

What happened in the past that was painful has a great deal to do with what we are today, but revisiting this painful past can contribute little or nothing to what wee need to do now.

The real question isn't whether you love your kids or not, but how well you are able to demonstrate your love and caring so that your children really feel loved.