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Kritisieren, urteilen und klagen Sie nicht

Kein Mensch beschuldigt sich selbst, mag er auch noch so sehr im Unrecht sein

Kritik ist nutzlos, denn sie drängt den anderen in die Defensive, kränkt sein Selbstbewusstsein

So sehr wir nach Anerkennung dürsten, so sehr fürchten wir Kritik

Beleidige niemanden und mache niemanden lächerlich, es bringt dem anderen unmut und dir gar nichts

Richtet nicht über sie, unter ähnlichen Umständen würden wir uns wahrscheinlich auch nicht anderes verhalten

"Jeder kümmere sich um den eigenen Schnee, nicht um das Eis auf dem Dach des Nachbarn" chinesisches Sprichwort

Kritik schürt Groll, der über lange Jahre anhalten kann

Jeder Narr kann kritisieren, urteilen, reklamieren, und die meisten Narren tuen es auch, aber um zu verstehen, zu verzeihen, braucht es Charakter und Selbstbeherrschung

"ich sage über niemanden etwas Schlechtes, und nur über jeden alles Gute dass ich über ihn weiß," Benjamin Franklin

"die Größe eines großen Mannes, zeigt sich darin, wie er die kleinen behandelt" Carlyle

Geben Sie ehrliche und aufrichtig gemeinte Anerkennung

Der stärkste trieb des Menschen, ist der, bedeutend zu sein

Interessieren Sie sich aufrichtig für die anderen

Ich betrachte die Fähigkeit Menschen zu begeistern als meinen größten Vorteil, durch Aufmunterung und Anerkennung kann man in Menschen die besten Kräfte mobilisieren. Nichts tötet hingegen seinen Ehrgeiz so gründlich wie Kritik von Vorgesetzten.

Ich kritisiere nie jemanden. Ich glaube dass man die Menschen zur Arbeit anspornen muss, deshalb lobe ich ebenso gerne wie ich ungern tadle. Wenn ich mit einer Leistung zufrieden so anerkenne ich sie aufrichtig und gehe großzügig mit Lob um

Zolle anderen im Alltag Anerkennung (Partner, Freunde, Mitarbeiter, Verkäufer...)

Ein Mensch ist bereit, etwas zu tun, wenn es ihm einen Vorteil bringt

Wenn du etwas von jemandem möchtest, frage dich was er möchte und wie das mit deinem Wunsch in Einklang zu bringen ist

Vorwürfe bringen niemanden dazu, etwas zu tun, das er nicht möchte

Wecke in ihm das Bedürfnis, das es ihm etwas bringt

Alles, was wir von jemandem möchten, sollte eine WinWin Situation sein

I was trying to be 27 at age 47, but God had to get rid of my vanity. I had trouble letting go of the old Lex physically. My human fleshly nature didn't want to let go of what had come to be billed as 'The Total Package.' I guess God had to help me get rid of the last remnant of that vanity and pride.

With random urinalysis, there's a clear choice - either get high or go to jail.

While short sellers probably will never be popular on Wall Street, they often are the ones wearing the white hats when it comes to looking for and identifying the bad guys!

I write songs very quickly, so the 20 minutes of joy I get out of writing a song doesn't compare to the two months of joy I get engaging with the people who like my music.

If you have the opportunity to do amazing things in your life, I strongly encourage you to invite someone to join you.

I'm an untrained musician. Untrained musicians don't really have any music theory, they don't have a lot of rules. We break the rules, but it's mostly because we don't know what the rules are. It's easy for us to go to certain places, so I'm not surprised that a lot of people were amused by my songwriting style.

Snohetta promotes a more democratic workplace atmosphere than most other architectural offices. This may merely reflect prevalent employment practices in Scandinavia, but Snohetta places a stronger emphasis on group participation in the design process than typical high-style firms.

People do all sorts of things impulsively and follow those impulses into strange places.

Pockets have long been a male/female divide.

I think we have a cultural difficulty with looking at our problems.

Injury taught me I need to learn how to face challenges.

During the 20th century, we came to understand that the essence of all substances - their colour, texture, hardness and so forth - is set by their structure, on scales far smaller even than a microscope can see. Everything on Earth is made of atoms, which are, especially in living things, combined together in intricate molecular assemblages.

I'd gone from being this art student messing about with music to this girl with a record deal, magazine front covers and all this hype. In many ways, it was everything I ever wanted, but when it happened all I felt was total, paralysing fear.

I have two children - could I ever choose between them? Never. That's what 'Sophie's Choice' was about. If you have 50 children, you don't love one less.

Evil is not something superhuman, it's something less than human.

The novelist in me is probably hiding behind all the stories I write, looking for ways to connect them and continue the conversation with readers. Maybe I'm writing one long narrative, and each book, however different from the last, is just a chapter.

I came here from Romania when I was 12 years old. I had an accent. High school was tough a little bit for a few years. I wanted to fit in. I wanted to be liked. I wanted to be good-looking. I wanted to be popular. I spent a lot of time thinking, 'What are these people going to think of me?'

Pets have more love and compassion in them than most humans.

By the life we live through the grace of Christ, the character is formed. The original loveliness begins to be restored to the soul. The attributes of the character of Christ are imparted, and the image of the Divine begins to shine forth.

China has made important contribution to the world economy in terms of total economic output and trade, and the RMB has played a role in the world economic development. But making the RMB an international currency will be a fairly long process.

When you're a regular gal, you look in the rearview mirror, and in the bright daylight you see that line around your mouth, but when you're an actress and you see that line up on the big screen, it's, like, seven feet long.

The secret of your success is determined by your daily agenda.

To seek is to suffer. To seek nothing is bliss.

Countries have lost their culture because what they wanted was money. Money became the running theme in every country and culture was sacrificed.