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Kritisieren, urteilen und klagen Sie nicht

Kein Mensch beschuldigt sich selbst, mag er auch noch so sehr im Unrecht sein

Kritik ist nutzlos, denn sie drängt den anderen in die Defensive, kränkt sein Selbstbewusstsein

So sehr wir nach Anerkennung dürsten, so sehr fürchten wir Kritik

Beleidige niemanden und mache niemanden lächerlich, es bringt dem anderen unmut und dir gar nichts

Richtet nicht über sie, unter ähnlichen Umständen würden wir uns wahrscheinlich auch nicht anderes verhalten

"Jeder kümmere sich um den eigenen Schnee, nicht um das Eis auf dem Dach des Nachbarn" chinesisches Sprichwort

Kritik schürt Groll, der über lange Jahre anhalten kann

Jeder Narr kann kritisieren, urteilen, reklamieren, und die meisten Narren tuen es auch, aber um zu verstehen, zu verzeihen, braucht es Charakter und Selbstbeherrschung

"ich sage über niemanden etwas Schlechtes, und nur über jeden alles Gute dass ich über ihn weiß," Benjamin Franklin

"die Größe eines großen Mannes, zeigt sich darin, wie er die kleinen behandelt" Carlyle

Geben Sie ehrliche und aufrichtig gemeinte Anerkennung

Der stärkste trieb des Menschen, ist der, bedeutend zu sein

Wecken Sie in anderen lebhafte Wünsche

Interessieren Sie sich aufrichtig für die anderen

Ich betrachte die Fähigkeit Menschen zu begeistern als meinen größten Vorteil, durch Aufmunterung und Anerkennung kann man in Menschen die besten Kräfte mobilisieren. Nichts tötet hingegen seinen Ehrgeiz so gründlich wie Kritik von Vorgesetzten.

Ich kritisiere nie jemanden. Ich glaube dass man die Menschen zur Arbeit anspornen muss, deshalb lobe ich ebenso gerne wie ich ungern tadle. Wenn ich mit einer Leistung zufrieden so anerkenne ich sie aufrichtig und gehe großzügig mit Lob um

Ein Mensch ist bereit, etwas zu tun, wenn es ihm einen Vorteil bringt

Wenn du etwas von jemandem möchtest, frage dich was er möchte und wie das mit deinem Wunsch in Einklang zu bringen ist

Vorwürfe bringen niemanden dazu, etwas zu tun, das er nicht möchte

Wecke in ihm das Bedürfnis, das es ihm etwas bringt

Alles, was wir von jemandem möchten, sollte eine WinWin Situation sein

How many stories have you read that aren't true, stories about me and Angie being married or fighting or splitting up? And when we don't split up, there's a whole new round that we've made up and we're back together again!

Most of what Einstein said and did has no direct impact on what anybody reads in the Bible. Special relativity, his work in quantum mechanics, nobody even knows or cares. Where Einstein really affects the Bible is the fact that general relativity is the organizing principle for the Big Bang.

Performing is the easiest part of what I do, and songwriting is the hardest.

Mobile devices such as Android and the iPhone achieve their battery life largely because they can aggressively and quickly enter into and exit from sleep states. GPS prevents this.

In the NBA, as in nowhere else in America, white people are utterly beholden to black people, and they're not about to let us off that easily. It's a kind of very mild payback for the last 500 years.

I don't hold grudges.

A fondness for reading changes the inevitable dull hours of our life into exquisite hours of delight.

Ballet found me, I guess you could say. I was discovered by a teacher in middle school. I always danced my whole life. I never had any training, never was exposed to seeing dance, but I always had something inside of me. I would love to choreograph and dance around.

When you do cross-breeding of plants, you're doing this blind experiment where you're just mixing DNA of different types of cells and just seeing what comes out of it.

I think that films or indeed any art work should be made in a way that they are infinitely viewable; so that you could go back to it time and time again, not necessarily immediately but over a space of time, and see new things in it, or new ways of looking at it.

Making peace is harder than making war.

If you go into an underground train in London - probably anywhere, but chiefly in London - there's that sense of almost entering a ghostly dimension. People are very still and quiet; they don't exchange many pleasantries.

I've never been that cute kid that was forgiven for being naughty.

No matter how big a comedian gets, they're ultimately all just a bunch of nerds with their weird insecurities. You realize these are just the people in high school who were making people laugh.

Everybody should pay some tax, just as everybody should vote.

Come on... when you're running, if you see you're going to win, you're going to celebrate.

The movies that influenced me were movies that told their stories through pictures more than words.

It's a very small and select slice of all the people who have ever been born. I believe we've come back during this time, those of us who are here now, specifically to experience it. And to cause a 'quickening of the spirit.'

You have to really dive deep back into yourself and get rid of so much modern analytical categorization. It's one of the great things poetry does.

Women are now very comfortable to have babies into their late 30s. You can be a father in your 50s. I'm not saying it's for everybody, and I think people have to get their own life secure before they take on the responsibility of a partner and children.

I was surprised at how slow Froch was. We were able to beat him to the punch.

Dick Mills was in charge of sound effects and all the rest then, and he put the voice through a ring modulator or whatever gizmos he'd got at the time to make it sound a little more electronic.

My mom, grandma, great-grandma - we're all named Mary, and we all play piano and sing.

I would love to see some comedies about loser women.