Productivity : not-to-do-list 1. Tasks important but can’t be done (dependance on someone else, timing...) 2. "Busywork" not moving your goals or life forward, or that no one will notice except you. Can you delegate them ? 3. Ongoing tasks don't need additional attention, systems already set up or part of routine — 4. Urgent tasks that are often to-do lists given to us by other people, such as getting some background research on a project or making follow-up calls. Do they have to be done by you ? Your don’t-do list is a list of items not available for your time. Identify and do those activities that will move forward instead.
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BE SUAVE to remember names Believe : eliminate negative self talk Exercice : practice makes progress Say : say the person's name Use : it in conversation (no abuse) Ask : spelling, origin, meaning Visualize : turn it into a picture associating face and item (ex: Mary in wedding dress) End : use the name to say goodbye
Link method of memory : associate item with next through a ridiculous picture. Works well for lists in specific order (imposed or chosen). Tips for pictures : involving you, striking / strong, ridiculous, screw proportions, avoid logic (not striking enough) Car shoe screwdriver fish bed pineapple telephone cigarette
Practical exercice Write out what you link pain to, for example: I might not succeed. I could fail. I might look stupid. I could be rejected. Turn that into pleasure: I will succeed, I can’t fail, I can only learn more about me and get another step closer to my goals. No one can reject me unless I allow them to.
6 tips for more mental toughness 1. Eat the elephant, one bite at a time 2. Vizualize success, vividly and in détail 3. Emotional control, 4by4for4 4. Non reactivity, examine your reactions 5. Small victories, see smaller and focus on little nice things 6. Find your tribe, your interest, your necessity